As most of you know I've been working by myself for the past 3 months.

Now - I'm lonely no more!

Finally, I got Alice joining and I've never felt so alive for so long. (Ya, beside that crazy 2 weeks on managing the event on my own...)

This lunch, together with the girls, Alice brought us to a new place to explore...

As walking towards the Intl Building, Alicia opened up her brolly and gets me to share with her under her little umbrella. Finally! We both found someone whom gets so afraid of the sun! Cos usually, Josh will laughed at me when I tried to hide away from the sun by going to shades.

And as Alicia and I were chatting away, we got into the topic of her bf and lead to ROM thingy. I forgot what was the conversation that I asked if she wants to come to my ROM.

"Can ma? Really can ma? Would you invite me?"

"I'm so afraid of troubling my friends and all as as usual, I'm not a celebration person (like bd) cos I dont like to make my friends take time off just for me lei. Of cos I would love to invite you, but for both ROM and AD ma? Would you still come for my AD?"

"Of cos, if you invite me, I would want to attend both lah!"

"Heee... Sure sure! Of cos I would love to invite you! Bring your bf along ok!"

"Really ma? He can go?"

"Of cos, babe! Those with partners are all to bring him/her along!"

Hee... I told her that I actually tears for all the soleminsation and wedding dinner that I attended. Once the music was out with the video montage, I would tears. Tears with joy for my happily married friends. So of cos I want all my friends to have their partner with them to witness happy moments.

And Alice starts to share with us the most touching moment she attended and made her tears.

The groom made a speech and said to all his friends: "You all know that from the day I met her (bride), I already know she's the one I want to marry" (something like that, I cant remember the exact word for word) And Alice told us that this couple were together for more than 10 years since school days.

Just as she said, I tears again! Haaa!!! I really cannot make it...

And to my dear Josh, of cos, I would also tears when that sweet moment exchange of your love and you. Hee...

Anw, here we are at the lunch...

Alice and Alicia...
Me @ Work = No makeup... Haa... So it's dull but lucky the lighting not that strong... (JB, prob u used flash thats why pics CMI)

Josh dear and Me...
Our lunch! Super nice lah!

The girls!Now, I truly know how it feels to have girls colleagues and friends together. I'm always so envy of my wifey with so many girls in SH with her! I really wish that I could have those scene one day too...

To have the girls for lunch and went into topics of going to Spa together and Alice shared about the Bra-sales which she forward the email to tell us its Bra-Time!

And also to have the girls all so ready to do detox together just make me so super excited! Alicia couldnt find anyone to detox except for her one guy-friend and as I broke out the reason that I'm skipping lunch for detox, it got everyone in the topic! Alice had her fantastic detox session with her girls colleagues back in her ex-co where everyone of them skipped their meal and go into the special detox foods.

Okay. I found my kakis!!!!!!

Alicia is so into beauty like me, whom will take brolly on hot sunny day, who believes in detox and as I asked her if she spends time on putting sunblock.... She does too!! Awww! And I asked her if we are those type that use moisturiser with SPF, follow by sunblock?

Her reply: YESH!

I shared with her that even my makeup powder and fondation gotta have SPF too!

Her reply: YESH YESH YESH!

Her sweet lovely bf could even ask her before they go for a date:"Have you put your sunblock?"

Okay, now I dont care if the world think we're extreme. But we found each other! And most importantly, we know the purpose of doing it!

Alice and Me...

This sweet dearie really melt my heart from the day she stepped in. I never believe in having fun-loving female-colleague till Alice proved me wrong. (although she's my ever first real colleague)

Her ever-ready to share and ever-chatty personality just made me wanna talk to her more. To the point that I've been sharing and asking for her opinion for alot on my personal things. She's like a big sister to me. I really like her.

She always want to get me involved and wants to bring me to events and explore makes me know she's truly an unselfishly lady. The only regret is that I always turn her down and not going with her! Haa...

And for those days when I didnt go in to office, makes me feel so bad for not being there to accompany her and I do feel so lonely working from home and did wish for being in the office!

Haa... This is how the girls drove me crazy now. The more that makes it love my work.

Thanks so much to my dear Josh for always being there to accompany me, my Alicia babe for always having that lovely smile to brighten up all our days and my dearie Alice for being a big sister to me and taking care of me so much.

I love all of you!

Labels: My Friends Faculty

Met with JB and I requested for Astons for lunch!

This time round, I ordered the Pork Chops. Quite a disappointment. I think I still prefer the chicken chop that I had the last time round.
After lunch, movie time for this 2 movie-freaks!

JB requested for Meet The Spartans. We know its a crap show like Scary Movie. But didnt expect to be that crap. I dont like it at all. Haa..


And sorry, JB, that I think most probably your hp-camera just simply dont like me. Cos all the pics are so ugly! Haa...!

Anw, more movies again!

It's been some time since I last visited my grandma (since after CNY)...

Haa... So this hot afternoon at 4pm, I reached my Ah Ma's house and screamed for cold water. Hehee... I just like to act like I'm still a little baby to my grandma.

There, my Ah Ma starts to tell me her everyday activities and such.

Till I fell asleep on the sofa for a good 30 mins. Am I not a very good grandchild?

Then after, I woke up and continue the chat.

She told me how swimming cure the pain in her leg and tell me to ask my grandmother (mom's side) to go learn swimming too.

And I start to ask her how's her swimming lesson and she tells me that there's only 10 lessons for them. Thenafter, they've to swim without any guide.

"Then you go with your friends ma?"

"Ya sometimes but at times, my friends not free, I go on my own."

"....."

"I will cycle all the way to the pool and swim by myself. I know... Your gugu already said that it's very dangerous to go on my own. But what's there to scare? There's so many floats around and so many life savers there lah. Very safe one!"

Okay... That makes me a bad grandchild now again. If only I know how to swim, I will sure accompany her. And now I'm in shame. My grandma cycles to go swim. And I can do neither of them. Haaa!

She is one super active Ah Ma. While chatting, she stands up and do some kicking exercise.

She appeared in channel 5 - Heartlanders something... One of those playing Qi Gong.

Since last year, she has been selected to go on stageplay to act.

Powerful Ah Ma not only learns swimming now, she also in English class. I am so proud of her can!

And here, she's on our East Coast News! Haaaa!! I love you, granny! Muackz!

When my birthday was a planned dinner, it was really dull. And as that period wasnt a good time for my gfs, I don't really feel good with the celebration as I had to get them to be with me when they were feeling so down.

As I brought my sis to her girlfriends last year did drive me to tears. Her gfs 'arranged' with me to 'bluff' her to the ktv they pre-planned for her bd. From then, I got so envy and I want to make my gfs surprise with tears too. I don't wish my gfs to feel down on their day like me, I really want them to be happy.

The first attempt with Jing's planning for wifey's bd as she wasn't in a good mood. It w5s a success. She tears non-stop.

This round, for Jing's bd, we want to make it happen again.

The preparation...

Its coincidence we wore the same colours...

Wifey and Me...So much so for the preparation, I couldnt help in blowing the balloons because I don't know how to... and I help them to 'stretch' which makes them laughed cos they said I'm not adding any help to it.

Wifey says they're all giving the balloons - BJ.


My sis dont really know how to tied the ballons and wifey is there to teach her...


I kena bullied... The Process...
And we started to pose with the balloons while waiting for the time...

Individual balloons shoot -
When it's time for our birthday girl to arrive!

There she is...
Happy birthday dearest!As we waited for too long for her to come, the candles melt to its end...
Our party starts! With Pizza!

When we asked Jing if she is surprise for it, she kinda 'sense' something as when I told her I'm going to Msia and wifey 'acted' about asking her which day is her birthday. Haaa! Wifey really cant tell lies! She's a honest girl. Hee... And she was thinking about how we're going to celebrate for her as she knows we won't leave her alone on her special day. Arrrgh!

The only thing was that she thought the 'surprise celebration' would be outside instead of wifey's house.

Anyway, all girls love surprise and this is how a birthday celebration should be! Full of life, fun and laughters!

Birthday girl with balloons shoot -

Birthday girl 'treatment'...

Snapping time!Having fun with the balloons...

And please do not think that this is only a girls-game. Because Darrel loves it too!

All of us...Only the birthday girl gets it! We love you!

The multi-shots...

I'm so glad that our dearest friend had a great birthay celebration. As I keep asking her about what she wants to do for her bd (as it has always been our usual practice for discussion with the bd girl) and she says she don't feel like doing anything and just wants to stay at home.

When she told me that, I'd the thoughts of surprising her at her doorstep. But as I was too afraid of Milky, I gotta get help from wifey to plan something else.

If it's another planned dinner or something, it wouldnt be as sweet as a party like this. It is a success with all the friends around and it's meant to be a happy occassion to celebrate!

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It wasnt the end. Way before Xav flew back to US, I called him to arrange Jing's bd surprise! Haa... And it's another lie again to tell Jing that I'm going to her house to pass her some stuffs on Sunday morning. As it gotta make her prepared for waking up early.

And as I called her, she told me this was really totally unexpected and never came across her mind. She was shocked to received the gift. Gfs love was not enough to cover for the man she loves in her heart ya. And that marks her beautiful day. I'm really happy deep down that we made this day happened for her.

She had done so much for me. As a friend, she has been doing more than what she can do. I always get more than what a friend would give me. She never leave me when I'm in need, when I'm in doubts. She always give me support and hold on to me when I feel like falling.

Dearie, this is as much I can do for you as your buddy. To top up fun and laughters to make your heart warm. Do remember, I'm always ready to be there for you whenever you need too.

Happy birthday, girl!

Labels: My Friends Faculty

Venue: Keppel Tower
Getting all ready...Register...Alicia and Me...

My iPhone... Thank you so much, B! Muackz!!

This post will be updated next week...

Meeting with my wifey.

Venue: Dhoby Exchange

Purpose: Jing's birthday surprise discussion over Lunch

It's really difficult for wifey because she has to be the one to arrange to 'meet' Jing on 23rd Feb and gotta 'bluff' her over to wifey's house for the surprise setup.

Me? I just told Jing that I'm going to M'sia on Sat. That's so simple for me to escape. Haaa!

After lunch, I went to meet up with Jing and in my mind keep thinking and planning how to make her happy on that Sat. Hee...

V-day is just another normal day... I don't feel any special mood in this day. Again, it's just a commercial day where everywhere gets to earn for the 'valentine-celebration'.

I understand what people always say about 'everyday is Valentine' where you don't need 14 Feb to 'show' the world that you're in love and to 'show' your partner that how much you love her/him.

If your partner took only this day to put in extra effort to make you special and happy it's just because of the 'pressure' that everyone is doing it. And if it's only because that it is 14 Feb and makes you realise that 'oh ya, it's Valentine again and I gotta make her/him happy and to show that I love him/her', it''ll be so 'expected'. You'll expect that your partner do something for you and you gotta do it too.

We did meet for this day as the feeling of couple-day is so strong but I urge on not buying any flowers or gifts for me because I do feel heartache for my B to spend extra just because its V-day. I rather receive gifts and flowers unexpectedly on any other days than to expect that he'll give me something on this day. I would feel that he's not sincere enough.

Nevertheless, we plan for a simple outing.

Had our simple lunch at Mcdonalds...Past by Far East Flora and went in to take a look in search of Jing's gift.


To Sentosa...When B asked me what I want for dinner, I just want to have the western food along East Coast Rd.

This Aston Specialities is making me real mad! It's like our 4th visit and for the past 3 times, we only get to 'see' and can't get in because of the super long queue!

This day, we make it to reach Aston at 520pm and we were both so happy for not seeing a queue but it's full house again and we started the queue then!

Lucky it was like only a 5 mins wait...

Very lucky again that the food are really super nice! Or not B would complain for coming over so many times and didnt manage to taste it. After we left, the queue was like a snake.

After dinner, we watched P.S I Love You.

That marks our beautiful V-day!

Labels: My Valentine Paradise

I just came back from chilling out with Ber. We had long chat. Now I find that asking about each other work (esp. MINE), each other current life on are you earning enough money to be able to handle the transport, ERP, roaring property and the meals (as the list goes on) is super taxing!

Suddenly, Ber asked me:

“Hey do you go ktv?”

“No”

“…………….. but why?”

“Just don’t feel like to”

“Ok, now I would like to know what do you usually do? I really want to understand more”

I think for like 5 seconds…

“Actually I can’t think of any…”

“……………. WHY? Anything wrong?”

Pause for another 5 seconds…

“Maybe I started too young”

“Oooh… Okay, ya, I understand that too.”

“Started too young to go clubbing, go KTV for like as many as 4-5 times a week, play pool and bowling like almost every single night, spend all hours to clear Time Crisis, having supper all around Singapore for all nights without fail…”

All these happened like before the age of 21.
Then realised body started to complain for over-using it and started a new relaxing ‘activity’ called ‘movie-marathon’.

“You know how to cycle right?”

“No”

“Swimming?”

“No”

“Ooooh…”

These words blurted out before I can hold back:

“Probably I have reached the stage of settling down. Just like my girl-friends who have been talking to me about their children and it’s so blissful.”

As much as I want to settle down, I always have the evil inside me to tell me to continue enjoy and have fun like before because once settled down, it really meant SETTLE. I won’t get any chance back like how much I wish I’m still 15 in that ugly school uniform.

The other side of me insists that I get married and have my own kids to begin the wonderful journey.

For so much of thoughts running wild, I’m constantly getting into this pre-marital depression. I don’t know why. I don’t know what I want.

I don’t know if I really ready to start this family thingy.

I don’t know if my other half will be what I always imagine to be the picture perfect I always embrace to sleep.

I don’t know if my other half would be like those in the fairytale to always support and stand by me and give me a happily ever after.

I don’t know if life would still be the same like what I’m living like everyday now.

I don’t know that I am so scare of getting into quarrels and disagreement till this moment.

I don’t know... I don’t know... I don’t know…

I guess I’ve been reading too much of Shopaholic – Becky’s life in the latest ‘Shopaholic and Baby’

All thanks to my sis who ‘forced’ me to read this very first book – Confession of Shopaholic.

Then I get to know there’s a continuation of it for ‘Shopaholic Aboard’ and so on…

At BKK, I bought the Shopaholic & Baby, which I read it all up in 3 days apart from the sleeping and working hours. Haa…

Here's the collection which my sis have and I reckon the first book would be a similar version to Confession of Shopaholic. And that last book was the latest book on sale. The rest of it? - Ya! I've finished reading them!

That’s what I’ve been doing. No wonder I didn’t go out for some fun or I’m already so bored about those ktv or bowling which I used to call them fun.

I tried out blogging because I want to be in-the-trend. Just as I ‘sms-chat’ with wifey this morning, I find that blogging is gonna be out of my world soon. I got bored of it.

My current ‘fun-thing’ is to get to office. Didn’t realise I missed office so much when I spent yesterday working from home. I’ve so much to chat with Alice (my new colleague) and she is always so ready to share! It’s so cool! I just love talking to her, like a big sister to me. Other than that, I need someone to inject some ‘life’ in me now… I don’t know what I truly wants now…

Labels: My Moods Mansion

Day 2! Yeah! My boy slept at 6am in the morning and can tell easily from his sleepy face...







She's in her perfect mood today!
And I continue my gambling session while she plays with the little cousins.


Now -As my mummy wants to grab hold of baby Joey attention, she gave her the bear so she could get to carry her. In the end, baby Joey grabs the bear and ignore my mum.

Result - causing Chelsea to be super mad and keeps asking my wu-yi to get the bear back for her.


Take 1 - Feeling helpless that her bear ended up with Joey...


Take 2 - Trying hard to talk to her hoping she can give up the bear...



Take 3 - Get her sister to help her to beg for it...

Take 4 - Trying to psycho Joey's dad to help in the mission...

Take 5 - When all fails, little Chelsea decided to call for her sisters on a discussion...


Take 6 -

Baby Joey: "Bye... I'm going off! You lose!"

Little Chelsea: "Wait!"

Take 7 -

End up, after trying and trying, Baby Joey finally gave up and drop the bear. Enough of little Chelsea nagging... Haaa!

And there...

Little Chelsea shouted loud: "I'm going to sit on my bear so no one can take again!"
Here's Kai Kai...Kai Kai watches Mel like an adult here. To check out what is he drinking.

When Mel starts to catch him, he ran away. Ha...

After dinner, Mel starts to disturb Chelsea. He went into the room where the kids were playing and took away Chelsea's bear. Of cos Chelsea starts all over again: give me back!

Mel plays with her to see who can snatch the bear first...
Of cos Mel was too fast for her and she starts her nagging again...

When she finally gets her bear back...


While I was playing my game, little Chelsea came and hop up on me...

Then she went to disturb Mel. All my ai-yi also jealous that why she sticks to Mel more than them...


Now, Mel asked her to keep the bear in her pocket to prevent anyone to take it again.

As we were about to go, we went to find little Chelsea to saw this scene...

Chelsea's sis offered to give the bear to Kai Kai when Chelsea snatched it back.

Last pic for the night -
This looks more like [Chelsea and her bear] entry than CNY. Hehe...

Thanks to my sis for her bear which gave me to give Mel for making Chelsea happy. And it ended up being the highlight for my blog on CNY Day 2.

I enjoyed my CNY celebration! How about you? Hope its great too!

Woohohoooo! My first hongbaos of the day! From daddy and mummy!

And my first hongbaos-giving! For my grandmas...
First shot of the day!My boy is the first to bai-nian!And I dont know who's he's looking at. My sis... still holding on to her violin even its CNY!!Family pic!My daddy attempt of making muah-chee. It's a success!

There - I brought the dress and accessories for Joyer to try on.
She just cant wait to put them on!
Here, she super ai-mei! She really likes to pose eh!
When I asked her to do my signature pose, she has no problem with it lor. Ooooh... These the dishes that my gu-ma prepare for us. Yummy!
Yummy yummy!My dearest super-active Ah Ma...

And now, she wants to try on the tiara.

When her gu-ma (my cousin Amy) found her pink-flowers headband...

My mummy helps him comb his fur and makes him happy...

Now, Mel starts to draw to make Joyer happy...

DAY ONE -
















Dinner - Shark Fins!I really don't know how to describe their shark fins at BKK. It's so thick and so value for money (cheap) compare to what we get from SG. This appetizer is tooooo nice!



Favourite Breakfast - I get B to take the shots with me.

Labels: My Valentine Paradise