On 30th June 2008, my contract officially ended with my ex-company.

Today, 2009, it's my dear A last day! I'm so happy for her and I sent her my blessing. (Waiting for her to send me the pics)

On top of that, J tendered at 530pm on this very day!

I'm so happy for my 2 close friends.

Finally.

That's not all.

We had done our completion on this very day too! Yeapie!!

I love 30th June.

When 4 gorgeous and 2 hunks met, we have 1 common enemy.

Doesn't this make your life more miserable by creating a big mess in your company and make all your staffs hate you? Gosh! Unbelievable!

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We headed towards Dempsey Road.

Finally. After so many times of trying to meet there.

Alicia insisted that I should meet them at Orchard when I suggested to take a bus down from work. Lucky she insisted! We were both too concern about each other, I feel bad that they have to wait for me for an hour after work. But she was too worried that I might lost my way and it's too dark for me. Love her!

I'm just too excited and happy to meet them. And I met 2 new friends. Rather, the cyber-friends whom have exchanged lots of email messages. Heeh!

Upon alighting from the cab, we met Alice. MISSSS her so much!! She dotes me like a little sis to her.

We settled down at Bens & Jerrys. (Make me think of my photoshoot with my 2 darlings and banana)


Aww.. So sweet...Choosing our meal seriously

Labels: My Friends Faculty

When Jing knows that I'm feeling moody, she asks me immediately if I want to meet up.

She says she knows why I am moody. It's because I lack of LOVE.

Love of friendship.

That's what she said.

The very next day of our chat, we met up.

This is what BFF will do.

She lets me pour out whatever have been keeping within me. She listened and she got angry and she vent it out with me.

This is what BFF will do.

When wifey knows that we met up, she wanted to join along but as she wasn't feeling well, we told her to stay home. When she knows that we went to Tamp, she drove out to find us and head towards the best healing place - East Coast Beach.

This is what BFF will do.

Thanks girls, for being there with me all the time whenever I need. Jing even tell me that she will plan to stay with me when Mel is going to reservist for 3 weeks. I really heart her. And for wifey to listen to me, to hear me out, to comfort me, to stand along with me, to be so attentive and concern about me on little details; really made me so much happier now. I love her so much!

This is what my BFFs will do!

We stayed out late that night.

3am.

Before bed, Jing replied me:

Labels: My Girls Wonderland

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I heart my friends =)

So does qualification equals to capability?

Does position equals to work output?

When X from my ex-co questioned A about my qualification, A got so turned off and gave him a “what’s your problem?" - look

X then further explains because that if one has no degree, she shouldn’t be an Exec, can only be an Asst Exec. WTF.

So what if I’m an Exec without a degree?

It resulted in his unbalanced hormones to be unhappy about it.

So I thought, the company gave me a title of Exec, so do you want to demote my title cos of my qualification and forgot about what I had done and contributed to the company? Does it matter that I’m at which position to please your day? When I see my colleague going through her degree while being an Asst Exec; it doesn’t do her any justification throughout her 3 years in the company. She knows so much, done so much, work so hard but they still keep her as an Asst Exec. Even after she got her degree, she wasn’t officially offered a promotion. Why?

So that means any degree fresh grad, without any experience can be an Manager/Exec once he joins the company. WTF.

Of course, the director of the company won’t just demote my title because of this silly issue. This title was proposed when the director of the entity brings up my contract to the company. And the company approved and I got the job. What’s the big problem that my qualification doesn’t match my title?

I was told that even those who worked for 10 over years for the company, remains a small Asst Exec throughout just because she does not have the qualification. But I believe that she do have that enough knowledge and work responsibility during her service with the company right? Why do we have to keep to the book on not promoting her just because of the damn paper?

And now, easily anyone can be an undergrad student. Just because of the paper, he can enjoy having the power as a manager but not doing any much contribution to the company and with attitude?

So they make the worthwhile managers then?

I always feel that we are just WORKERS for company. And you know what it meant by worker. You just simply work for the company because they pay you. There’s should be no feelings attached. Because anytime you leave the company, they can just easily get someone to replace you. You are never the important person in anywhere. A shared with me before that nobody is indispensable.

Company look at qualification than your capabilities.

Capabilities = Your position title

So many friends had talked about it before. Just because of their qualifications, they can never go far. They are always being treated as somebody low and helper in the company.

It’s not because we are not smart enough to pursue a higher education. But we have family financial issues that we can’t afford education.

Few days back, WL was in an argument with Ed that “Parents owe us an education”

Which Ed and I totally disagreed with what she said. WL said that since parents bring us to this world, they should give us the education. So they owe us.

Ed: “Nobody in this world owes you anything. Including parents”

I agreed.

Why should parents owe us an education? Just because they brought us to this world? WL says if they can’t afford, then they shouldn’t bring us to the world then.

Nope.

Some of us (as children) also choose not to burden our parents with the education fees and we rather start to work earlier than our same age friends because of family financial. If you get to have your higher education, you are lucky. If not, I don’t think anyone should blame your family, your parents.

I’m happy enough that I’ve gotten what I have now.

I don’t blame the company and superior who choose to look at you for what you are due to your qualification. Because this is the society we are being raised up in.

Just because I don’t have the qualification, it means I don’t the title in the company, I don’t have the title in the company, it’s equal to that I don’t have the capability. And I am being judged by it then. Now I understand why certain events, I'm not worth to being sent to.

Fine.

I got this from someone who is aware of my current situation now blog this:
"Sigh. Somedays I wonder why there are so many stupid people out there with high paying jobs. I mean, they lack common sense. They arent imaginative. I think I know why. The academic type. They score in exams and are employed, although they have little social ability."

I believe it is so too.

Back to S - Whatever he got to say and his thoughts. There's tons to talk about him and what he did. By then, my post will be 3 pages long. Unbelievable!

I just got so disgusted. He is the fortunate one then. Please think about others before you open your mouth. I couldn’t believe that these above thoughts haunted me for so long. I will never be appreciated anyway.

Just because I don’t have a f-degree.

That is why no matter what, I hope my sis gets her degree. Because it sucks to be out there without one.

Labels: My Moods Mansion

I'm not the only one complaining. See. Please do what you as a superior should do. Do not let others look down at you.

You can't win your team's heart, you can never win the world.

Please - get a life!

I'm such a bad wife. Still need to get my boy to come and pick me from Parkway to his birthday dinner venue.

He says he don't mind. As he treats this as another dinner. Lucky, he is the same as me. Feels that birthday can be just normal as long as we feel happy.

Buffet dinner at The Greenhouse, Ritz. Treat by Gerard.

I love Oysters! And I asked Gerard to get some for me.

My boy and his happy meal.

Part of our Social Com event - it's BBQ today!

We will get to go off at 3pm from office! It just reminds me of my previous co where we need to contribute $4 every month (forced by deducting from our salary) to the Recreation Club.

What do we get every month? Only 2 pathetic servings of fruits. =_="

Oh well, at least at here, I get good welfare and all are taken care of, which the school actually gives $ for each staff headcount to the Social Com Club to do event every month.

Camwhore first before we leave the office -

Introducing - WL, Nellie, Me!

And how can we forget our dear Richard...........

The last group to arrive...

Nellie and Me. Really heart this girl!

There - he still acts like a boy. This is what I like about him anyway.

His lovely friends =)

Ms Joey kena force?

This is much more xin-gan-qin-yuan. ^_^

Happy Birthday!

Labels: My Valentine Paradise

I had this twitter account at its beginning stage. I didn't really go and explore it cos it's too new and not many are using it yet.

Just a few days ago, when I decide to log in, Jason was registering for his account too. Haa... Then I got so excited as I saw someone to join the tweet.

I actually got a bit addicted to it now especially as I insert the code to my blog. So fun!

So, today, as my temp, WL saw DigitalLife is about Twitter, she quickly passed me the papers.
This is written by:
"Schoolboy Xavier Lur, 15, Singapore's most popular Twitterer with 55,000 followers"

WOW!

This is what my dear boy wrote on his msn! Hmph! Haven start doing and now already plan to skip all that?

go mkt, buy things, bring hm, cook, sweat, eat, still must wash, aiya just phone order la